It may be an overkill but have you thought about writing your own CustomIDGenerator which probably subclasses say the AutoGenerator of hibernate and exposes a couple of methods where you can set the id of the next class object to be generated so for example
class MyGenerator extends .... {
public void setIdForObject(Class clazz, Long id) {
//once you use this API, the next time an object of
//type clazz is saved the id is used
}
public void setIdForObject(Class clazz, Long id, Matcher matcher) {
//once you use this API, the next time an object of
//type clazz is saved and the matcher matches yes the id will be
//assigned. Your matcher can match properties like name, age etc
//to say the matched object
}
}
This could get complicated but at the least is possible as per hibernate doco