You can find the instance of Fragment by using,
For support library,
YourFragment fragment_obj = (YourFragment)getSupportFragmentManager().
findFragmentById(R.id.fragment_id);
else
YourFragment fragment_obj = (YourFragment)getFragmentManager().
findFragmentById(R.id.fragment_id);
Then create a method in the Fragment that updates your TextView
and call that method using fragment_obj
like,
fragment_obj.updateTextView();